Day 6: Choosing Love on Purpose
Scripture: “Let all that you do be done in love.” — 1 Corinthians 16:14 (NIV)
Reflection: Love isn’t sustained by feelings alone. It’s strengthened by daily, intentional choices, especially when it’s not easy. Consider this, how you treat and honor your spouse is a ministry, first to your spouse, your children, your family, and then, externally. All that you do, should be done in love. Imagine how you could transform your relationship to something enjoyable, loving, peaceful, and growing. When you choose love on purpose, desired relationship characteristics become the fruit of your effort.
Prayer: Lord, help us choose love today. In our words, our actions, and our attitudes. Allow us to glorify you with our marriages. Amen.
Intentional Action: Do one intentional act of love without expecting anything in return.
Day 5: Making Space for Laughter
Scripture: “A cheerful heart is good medicine.” — Proverbs 17:22 (NIV)
Reflection: Did you know that fun, laughter, and leisure activities create an essential relationship dynamic that should never be neglected. This represents the time couples spend together to focus on them. It nourishes, replenishes, and strengthens relationships in such a way that not only supports high relationship satisfaction, but also enables a deeper connection for couples to navigate difficult seasons in their relationship easier and better. Remember that joy belongs in marriage too. Nurture your friendship. Friendship is essential to lasting love.
Prayer: God, restore joy and lightness in our marriage. Help us laugh, play, and have fun together. Help us to move from our normal routines to be intentional about time together to share our love and lives. We recommit ourselves to honor our vows to love and to cherish till death do us part. Amen.
Intentional Action: Do something fun. Create a date night (weekly, bi-weekly, or at a minimum monthly). Protect your date nights. It doesn’t have to cost. Plan to watch a movie, tell old stories, or simply be playful.
Day 4: Communicating with Honesty and Kindness
Scripture: “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.” — James 1:19 (NIV)
Reflection: Healthy communication isn’t about winning. It is important to seek understanding whether you agree or disagree with your partner’s perspective. Why understanding? Remember, you are on the same team with different players in the game. Healthy communication allows you to seek understanding for the good of the whole (husband, wife) verses seeking to win which is more focused on self and an individualistic perspective. No matter the situation, always be careful with your words. Choose words that heal, not harm.
Prayer: Lord, guide our words. Help us speak truth with love and listen with humility. Amen.
Intentional Action: Practice listening without interrupting or defending.