Day 4: Communicating with Honesty and Kindness

Written By James Youngs
Sunshine over the city and a large body of water

Sun over Mexico

Scripture: “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.” — James 1:19 (NIV)

Reflection:
Healthy communication isn’t about winning. It is important to seek understanding whether you agree or disagree with your partner’s perspective. Why understanding? Remember, you are on the same team with different players in the game. Healthy communication allows you to seek understanding for the good of the whole (husband, wife) verses seeking to win which is more focused on self and an individualistic perspective. No matter the situation, always be careful with your words. Choose words that heal, not harm.

Prayer:
Lord, guide our words. Help us speak truth with love and listen with humility. Amen.

Intentional Action:
Practice listening without interrupting or defending.

James Youngs

Creator of Covenant Strong, a faith-based initiative dedicated to strengthening marriages and families through Foundational Biblical Principles (FBPs) and Fundamental Best Practices. Whether you’re a couple seeking growth, a family building strong bonds, or a church looking to equip your members, we provide the tools to help you thrive.

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