Day 7: Recommitting to God at the Center
Scripture: “Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain.” — Psalm 127:1 (NIV)
Reflection: Strong marriages are built when God is at the center. This year, we want to be intentional about keeping God at the center of our relationship instead of keeping life so busy that God is placed on the sidelines, waiting to be put in the game. Today, we recommit our covenant to God. We choose one another daily, and commit to the work of strengthening our marriages day-after-day. We recommit to protecting the priority of our marriage, with God at the center.
Prayer: God, we place our marriage fully in Your hands. Lead us, strengthen us, and continue writing our love story. Amen.
Intentional Action: Holding hands, reaffirm your commitment to God and to each other out loud.
Day 6: Choosing Love on Purpose
Scripture: “Let all that you do be done in love.” — 1 Corinthians 16:14 (NIV)
Reflection: Love isn’t sustained by feelings alone. It’s strengthened by daily, intentional choices, especially when it’s not easy. Consider this, how you treat and honor your spouse is a ministry, first to your spouse, your children, your family, and then, externally. All that you do, should be done in love. Imagine how you could transform your relationship to something enjoyable, loving, peaceful, and growing. When you choose love on purpose, desired relationship characteristics become the fruit of your effort.
Prayer: Lord, help us choose love today. In our words, our actions, and our attitudes. Allow us to glorify you with our marriages. Amen.
Intentional Action: Do one intentional act of love without expecting anything in return.
Day 5: Making Space for Laughter
Scripture: “A cheerful heart is good medicine.” — Proverbs 17:22 (NIV)
Reflection: Did you know that fun, laughter, and leisure activities create an essential relationship dynamic that should never be neglected. This represents the time couples spend together to focus on them. It nourishes, replenishes, and strengthens relationships in such a way that not only supports high relationship satisfaction, but also enables a deeper connection for couples to navigate difficult seasons in their relationship easier and better. Remember that joy belongs in marriage too. Nurture your friendship. Friendship is essential to lasting love.
Prayer: God, restore joy and lightness in our marriage. Help us laugh, play, and have fun together. Help us to move from our normal routines to be intentional about time together to share our love and lives. We recommit ourselves to honor our vows to love and to cherish till death do us part. Amen.
Intentional Action: Do something fun. Create a date night (weekly, bi-weekly, or at a minimum monthly). Protect your date nights. It doesn’t have to cost. Plan to watch a movie, tell old stories, or simply be playful.